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Do you happen to be in a relationship?
Do you love posting “Relationship Goals”?
When you’re in a relationship and you constantly post about what you want in a relationship and what your significant other shouldn’t do, you’re automatically saying you’re single.
People don’t care about your smiling pictures on Instagram, let alone social media PERIOD. People can detect that you’re relationship is rocky and in their EYES, you’re available.
You make your boyfriend feel bad. You make him feel like he’s not doing enough. You post those things so that HE will see them. You post them so that he gets the idea that this is how he can please you. Too many females want the world but don’t seem to want to give the world to their man. Time to fix that. (I'll save that for another blog). The key is to NOT have social media effect your realtionship. That will REALLY rip your relationship apart.
From what I’ve noticed, most of these “Relationship Goals” are posted MORE when you come OUT of a relationship. Many tend to take the depression and focus on the things you SEE on social media than what’s inside of them.
You could see Jay and Beyonce and automatically think, “Relationship Goals”. Now don’t get me wrong, I love celebrity couples such as David and Victoria Beckham, Chrissy Teigen and John Legend, and Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade but I don’t want my relationship to revolve around them. I want my own love.
You see couples like these that have the family, fame, and fortune… but what about what YOU really want. Don’t you want your own love too? Besides, you really don't know what goes on behind close doors (saved for another blog as well).
One other thing women LOVE posting is what a MAN can do FOR them."I want a man that"... Or what the last guy did to her. "My ex did (insterts what he did)"... That’s where coming fresh out of a relationship comes into play. They’ll see these memes and tweets and just repost it because it makes them feel better. A woman will take her hurt and post it ALL over social media. People know when you’re with someone and then you break up. It’s social media. Once you let hundreds of guys know you’re available… They don’t care about what you want in a relationship; most want some ass.
HOWEVER, there are quite a few that really DO care. They see what you post. They’re the ones that check your page because they care about what you’re doing and what you like. The more you drown your sorrows into your posts though, he’s not too sure how to approach you. He sees you haven’t moved on. He sees that you’re hurt but he’s also annoyed because you seem to not WANT to get over that dude.
Clean yourself up. You’re a QUEEN.
If you’re coming FRESH out of a relationship, take some time off and focus on work, whether you do hair, tattoos,nails, network marketing, etc. Just post about your work and what you’re achieving. During the time you’re single, you’re supposed to be taking time to evaluate yourself. Once you feel that you’re good to go and know what you want in a relationship THEN you can post whatever like what makes you happy and what YOU’LL do for a man. I won't lie, those memes be on point! The thing is, you want to keep the man guessing. You WANT them to get to know you. We are women. We can never make up our mind but we’re good at making a man guess. Use that to your advantage. Save the important things about you for a date.